“Why not what you have learned through your successes in life and the experience you got through your struggles during your dark times, be something that you can help others?”

Is true that we tend to keep our darkest moments to ourselves. Arrogance maybe which is the manifestation of the fear of critisism. F
Forgetting that we are just humans.
Realizing our humanity, which I believe comes as a necessity, is the first step (in my opinion) to realize the humanity of others and then the option to give great help and service to others is in our hands. potential